Mirror Problem: A desire to make a good visual impression, but without the possibility of looking at a mirror.

First impressions matter, and no matter what we say, appearance is a fair part of it.

Right from fancy designer wear, police or doctor’s uniforms, or even monk’s garb, all are designed to convey a message, a message that ideally hits home in the first moment.

**This is the first post on this blog, so I was naturally interested in making a good first impression.

But then why do so many people ignore this aspect? I am certainly guilty of paying very little attention to appearance, and I admit I have paid a price for it. The main reason for failing to care about appearance is deeply rooted in ignorance and attitude. Some of us are brought up in idealistic chauvinism that says only competence and content of character matter. Everything else is frivolous!

Although getting over this idealistic mindset is the major hurdle, here is another problem that some of us face. Before I describe the problem, let me add that I am looking for inputs to improve my tactics in this regard. Your suggestions are most welcome.

Mirror-mirror on the wall

I am quite fond of the use of the mirror as a metaphorical exploration of identity. Mirrors in literature and art often symbolize self-awareness, introspection, and the search for one’s true self. This kind of introspective reflection can be a valuable practice for personal growth, self-awareness, and understanding one’s motivations, and this mirror is often more easily available to people with visual impediments.

However, the mirror on the wall is a bigger mystery.

I have never been sure if I am really clean-shaved or if my shoes/cloths etc have a dirt, my hair is well-kempt. Add to that a badge with 3 dots or a white cane, and the chance to make an unfortunate entrance is high.

Here are a few ideas to deal with it.

Confidence and Posture:

• Confidence and good posture can significantly impact how one is perceived. Stand tall, walk with confidence, and carry yourself well. These non-visual aspects contribute to a positive overall appearance.

Humor

• humor is often a great way to leave a positive and memorable mark. In fact, for a worse-case scenario, you can have a joke ready. Remember to gauge the atmosphere and the people you’re with to ensure your joke aligns with the situation.

All the normal caution about first impression

• Listening very carefully, following the proper etiquette, connecting to people around you, etc.

Does it matter to me to talk about this issue? Yes, a job interview, for example, is an important occasion where anyone, including a (semi)blind person, wants to have a good impression.  Also, for starting friendships and relationships, giving a genuine, authentic impression is difficult even for normal people.  Any suggestions to help the blind bandits?